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Sick of Swiping Left and Right? Join our Singles Mystery Bars Slow Dating Event!
Meet likeminded singles in person, enjoy a night out and potentially find your dream partner - without the pressure of speed dating or online apps. Don't miss your chance to connect with real people in a natural setting. Buy your ticket now.
AGES 25 – 39
TBA
7:30PM – 11:00PM
3 MYSTERY BARS
SYDNEY CBD
SOCIAL MINGLES HOSTS
Meet With Likeminded Singles
Our Singles Mystery Bars Slow Dating event provides the perfect opportunity to mingle with other singles who are also tired of the online dating scene. Enjoy a night out with new people in a natural setting, without the pressure of approaching a random stranger in a nightclub.
Explore Local Bars & Nightlife
We take you on a bar hop journey through the night, where you get to explore local bars and nightlife with other singles. It’s a fun and exciting way to break the ice and get to know each other better. You’ll have plenty of time to get to know your potential matches, without any time constraints.
Connect With Potential Matches
You’ll have the chance to showcase your personality and value to others, rather than relying on superficial images and messages like on dating apps. With no time constraints, you can chat the night away and potentially form a deep connection with someone special.
Slow Dating - The Ultimate Way to Meet Your Match!
At Social Mingles’ Singles Mystery Bars Slow Dating event, you can ditch the swiping and chat with real people in a natural setting. Explore local bars and nightlife while mingling with other like-minded singles. It’s the perfect opportunity to potentially find your soulmate and enjoy a fun night out.
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Male Ticket (Ages 25-39)
$59.00 Incl. one drink + hot nibbles + match cardFemale Ticket (Ages 25-39)
$59.00 Incl. one drink + hot nibbles + match cardSAVOUR THE THRILL OF THE EVENT
A Refreshing Alternative to Online Dating
Our Singles Mystery Bars Slow Dating event is a refreshing alternative to online dating, which can often feel superficial and unfulfilling. With our event, you get to meet real people in person and have genuine conversations without the pressure of messaging back and forth online.
Natural and Organic Setting
Our event offers a natural and organic setting for singles to mingle and potentially find a partner. You won’t have to worry about the awkwardness of approaching a stranger in a public venue and not knowing if they are single or not. We take care of that for you by gathering local singles in a venue and taking them on a bar hop journey throughout the night.
No Time Constraints
Unlike speed dating, there are no time constraints in our event. You can chat and get to know anyone you’re interested in at your own pace throughout the night. This allows you to build a more genuine connection with the other person and see if there’s potential for something more.
Explore Local Nightlife
Our event not only gives you the opportunity to meet other singles but also explore the local nightlife. We take you on a bar hop journey throughout the night, where you can discover new bars and enjoy the company of other singles while doing so.
A Chance to Find Your Soulmate
Our event offers a chance for you to find your soulmate. By meeting likeminded singles in person and having genuine conversations, you may just find that special someone you’ve been looking for. Don’t miss your chance to connect with real people and potentially find your soulmate. Buy your ticket now.
SLOW DATING TIPS
Singles Mystery Bars Slow Dating lets you experience the city's nightlife as you never have before. Gain peace of mind that everyone at the event is a like-minded single wanting to engage in exciting conversation and build great relationships. Here we thought give you some tips how to build outlasting connections.
The Goal – To chat with as many people as you canÂ
At Venue 1 make sure you talk to as many people as possible, even if you think someone isn’t your ‘type’ you might find you have chemistry and decide to get to know them more during the evening.
Remember not to take yourself too seriously (leave your ego at home) and don’t forget to have fun. You’ll get the most out of our event if you put yourself out there and don’t hold back. Approach others and engage in exciting conversations. Don’t wait for people to come to you and miss potential matches.
Top Tips on Breaking The Ice
Check out our top tips and talking topics on how to break the ice while at Venue 1.
1. Make sure to introduce yourself
2. Take an interest in your partner, focus on them and not on yourself
3. Compliment your partner
4. Share an interesting fact to get the conversation flowing
5. Ask about your partner’s hobbies
6. Talk about the event you’re at and how much fun you’re having
7. Ask your partner what their plans for the future are
The Goal – To get to know your top 5-7 people better
At Venue 2 it’s time to start getting to know the people you’ve connected with the most. Think of around 5-7 people you enjoyed talking to at Venue 1 and make it your mission to find out more about them.
It can also be a good time to start engaging in playful banter to help you find out if there is a spark and who you want to get to know at a deeper level.
How to Engage in Playful Banter
Playful banter can be a great way to help you and your partner relax when getting to first know each other. Playful banter can help you let your guard down, have fun and get the laughter flowing.Â
Check out our tips for engaging in great playful banter:
1. Be ready with witty comebacks
2. Practice relaxing and being funny before the event
3. Use what you know about your partner, even if you’ve just met
4. Make sure the mood is right and set the tone before engaging in playful banter
5. Use facial expressions, a cheeky smile or a playful wink will get a great response
6. Take your partner’s lead, if you are both having a good time be as outrageous or cheeky as you want
7. Use playful banter to get to know each other more
The Goal – To learn more about your top 1-3 people to deepen your connection
At Venue 3 it’s now time to get to know your top 1-3 interests from the event and learn more about them on a deeper level.
You want to deepen the spark you’ve discovered throughout the night, deepening your rapport and ultimately leading to taking things further and meeting up again after the event.
Laying The Foundation For a Deeper Connection
Help lay a good, strong foundation for a lasting love connection at Venue 3, show your partner you mean business and are serious about getting to know them on a deeper emotional level.Â
Do this by:
1. Not being afraid to show your vulnerable side
2. Asking meaningful questions, use what you’ve learnt about your partner during your interactions so far during the event
3. Actively listen to your partner and empathize with what they have to say
4. Share interesting stories about yourself
5. Complement your partner and show gratitudeÂ
